You can (still) get this lap dance here for free
As a follow-up to the strip club post...I recently finished Norah Vincent's Self-Made Man, and the second chapter on sex generally and strip clubs particularly summarized what a lot of my friends have told me about the strip clubs they've been to; which is to say, they're more depressing than titillatting. Like a birthday party for the unpopular kid in school, they're too often a depressing mockery of the wonderland they're intended to convey. These women--who were once someone's little girl, who wore pigtails and dreamed about princesses--have been reduced to pretending they enjoy baring their pussy for single dollar bills. No, I don't think that's for me.